{"id":1399,"date":"2006-11-13T01:52:01","date_gmt":"2006-11-13T08:52:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wordpress\/index.php\/2006\/11\/guilt-shame-and-secrets\/"},"modified":"2006-11-13T01:52:01","modified_gmt":"2006-11-13T08:52:01","slug":"guilt-shame-and-secrets","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/guilt-shame-and-secrets\/","title":{"rendered":"Guilt, Shame and Secrets"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Work was so at a level of burn-out suckitude last Friday, writing at all this weekend seemed too much like fucking work to cope.  I focused instead on the vitual and took a million and six photos and whatnot.  Also framed a couple for the boy-o&#8217;s new, swank, executron type office.<\/p>\n<p>I gotta admit though that one of the perqs of the workplace is the quasi-academic thang that gets rocked.  There&#8217;s an occasional emeritus dude or two from the school next door using office space and generally writing.<\/p>\n<p>One such character is doing a book on something I know a bit about, since good old Pat was a virtuoso &#8212; Guilt.  Yup, something I am fucking, damn, spanking truly good at.  We talked a bit about the cultural influence of people&#8217;s perception of guilt.  The word from the professional psych dude, it ain&#8217;t so much the Catholic, it&#8217;s the Irish what makes me feel this way.  Moralistic pricks from the Emerald Isle.<\/p>\n<p>Talking about guilt and the possible Asian corollary, shame, which may or may not be a chauvinistic, ethnocentric concoction by Westerners not getting the whole bowing shit and honor and stuff, was looking to be the high point of the day.<\/p>\n<p>Then the work day ended, M. came by and I experienced freedom.  We wondered down to Mountain View and stumbled upon <a href=\"http:\/\/postsecret.com\">Frank Warren of PostSecret.com<\/a> by happy accident, giving a talk at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.booksinc.net\/NASApp\/store\/IndexJsp?s=storeinfo&#038;page=275903\">Books, Inc.<\/a>  Rock on independent bookstores and gurus of simple, brilliant websites for helping me to forget about work bullshit completely.  Fucking completely.<\/p>\n<p>Coolest thing about the PostSecret session was hearing about the art exhibit base.  It&#8217;s definitely one of those simple ideas you just wish you had.  And, boiled down to a few words on a single postcard is the essential truth thing, I&#8217;ve heard tell about.  &#8216;specially in the comedic circles.<\/p>\n<p>Now that I&#8217;ve forgotten work, with stress and fatigue, but guiltless and without shame, I&#8217;ll wake up again tomorrow for some new shit, I&#8217;m sure.<\/p>\n<div id=\"wp_fb_like_button\" style=\"margin:5px 0;float:none;height:100px;\"><script src=\"http:\/\/connect.facebook.net\/en_US\/all.js#xfbml=1\"><\/script><fb:like href=\"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/guilt-shame-and-secrets\/\" send=\"true\" layout=\"standard\" width=\"450\" show_faces=\"true\" font=\"arial\" action=\"like\" colorscheme=\"light\"><\/fb:like><\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Work was so at a level of burn-out suckitude last Friday, writing at all this weekend seemed too much like fucking work to cope. I focused instead on the vitual and took a million and six photos and whatnot. Also framed a couple for the boy-o&#8217;s new, swank, executron type office. I gotta admit though [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":"","jetpack_publicize_message":"","jetpack_publicize_feature_enabled":true,"jetpack_social_post_already_shared":false,"jetpack_social_options":{"image_generator_settings":{"template":"highway","default_image_id":0,"font":"","enabled":false},"version":2},"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[12],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-1399","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-stuff"],"jetpack_publicize_connections":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_shortlink":"https:\/\/wp.me\/p8wYr-mz","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack-related-posts":[],"jetpack_likes_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1399","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1399"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1399\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1399"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1399"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/dee-rob.com\/wp\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1399"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}